Mother 母亲 Ann's mother manifested strikingly some of the elements of what Rickles(1971) has recently described as the "angry woman syndrome." These women come from families in which the mother was generally attractive, but often also alcoholic. They showed definitive preference for their male children and tended to devalue and denigrate their daughters—nearly to the point of open contempt. They constantly attack their husbands as inadequate—as providers and as lovers—and often accuse them of incestuous wishes toward their daughters. This is undoubtedly a projection of their own incestuous wishes for their fathers. Their life patterns are highly aggressive, sometimes with paranoid overtones. They are insecure in their own sexual role and identity as women and feel that all other women are lesbians. Their attitude toward their daughters is particularly undercutting and aggressively denigrating. 安娜的母亲惊人地表现出了Rickles(1971)最近描述的“愤怒女人综合症”的一些特征。这些女性来自这样的家庭，她们的母亲通常很有魅力，但也经常酗酒。他们对自己的男孩表现出明确的偏爱，并倾向于贬低和诋毁他们的女儿——几乎到了公开蔑视的程度。她们不断地攻击自己的丈夫，说他做得不够好——无论是作为供养者还是爱人——并且经常谴责他们对女儿有乱伦愿望。这无疑是她们对自己父亲乱伦愿望的投射。他们的生活模式是高度侵略性的，有时带有偏执的色彩。她们对自己作为女性的性角色和身份没有安全感，觉得其他所有女性都是女同性恋。他们对待女儿的态度尤其刻薄，而且咄咄逼人。 The history of Ann's relationship with her mother stands out as a particularly malignant one. Her mother—in the style of the angry woman—was constantly attacking Ann and undercutting her on every front. Ann was continually criticized, devalued, shamed, and held up for ridicule. The mother was intrusive and controlling. Everything that Ann did or attempted was subject to scrutiny and had to conform to the mother's judgment and evaluation. If Ann did not do it mother's way or in a way thatmother approved, Ann was made to feel worthless, rebellious, and evil. Ann grew up with an abiding sense of inferiority and inadequacy. She had no sense of her own capacity or independence. What was attempted on her own was doomed to failure and bound to end in disaster. 安娜和她母亲的关系史特别恶性。她的母亲——像那个愤怒的女人一样——不断地攻击安娜，从各个方面攻击她。安娜不断地受到批评、贬低、羞辱和嘲笑。母亲是侵入性和控制性的。安娜所做或试图做的每件事都要经过仔细检查，并且必须符合母亲的判断和评价。如果安娜不按照母亲的方式或母亲认可的方式去做，她就会让安娜觉得自己毫无价值、叛逆、邪恶。安娜从小就有一种自卑感和不胜任感。她对自己的能力和独立性没有任何感觉。她一个人的尝试注定要失败，注定要以灾难告终。